As a Seattle - based dating coach and consultant, I am frequently approached by earnest, well-educated individuals looking for real love.
So many daters these days appear to be supplanting the substantive, slow-cooked intimacy narratives of yore with the relationship equivalent of fast food.
In other words, we want chemistry. And we want it easy, hot, and now.
This can be a real drag for those of us looking to move past a first hookup and into real connection.